Ladies masturbates a lot, especially virgins, guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I am not here to argue on who masturbate most, I need to deal with a serious issue!
Sexual urge for virgins is strong but. What makes it stronger is the novelty and the hears says about sex. Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve organism.
Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage, or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is? Some ladies especially non-virgins use candle, banana, small bottle, sticks, dildos or what ever that represents penis and do solo sex having sex by yourself.
From teenage upwards, you will have a strong desire for sex, it is a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20's, it will be stronger and intense: you may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady!
You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image away off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something, you check up and discover that you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't commit any sin. So what then do you do when you get horny or hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release or pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time.
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. It damages you and shelter you to pieces! What then should you do for your sexual urge? Avoid dirty pictures, pornographic videos, pictures and hot romantic movies-they are powerful sexual triggers. Congratulations proffgodswill! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge s :. Award for the number of upvotes received.
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Let me explain! Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an ex, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having, you imagine having sex with them while masturbating. It will be very difficult to convince your future husband that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism.
If you are used to getting organism by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis.
You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completly unrealistic! Women who complain there husband penis is small, don't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles. You will not have a good sex life as a man.
You will experience premature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex then you can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release form masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completly unsatisfied and frustrated.
She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum.
You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent organism while giving your wife pleasure and satisfaction too. That is why total virginity pays! What is the benefits of sex without organsm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to enjoy sex with your wife.
It is a hell for a woman under a man who will thrust in for hours unable to ejaculate, how will the woman get pregnant? It is the reason some women are seemly barren and cannot talk to anybody out of embarrassement. Thrusting hard for too long leaves a woman frustrated. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate.
Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasure that comes with sex in marriage! You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act. You start getting unsatisfied and want real thing. You fatasize more about sex and bonding for the real act. You get a warped view of the opposite sex.
You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirts or trousers. You become promiscuous. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
You are at risk of hellfire These and more are the consequences of masturbation. Avoid friends who says dirty things. Get busy with your life, education, and career, there is more to life than sex.
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