Lipstick Alley. For the Adults in the room whats your take on this? Mar 8, at PM 1. You're in a long term relationship the weekend approaches. They want to see you on Sat but then is hit with I'm going out with my cousin.
They knew this little tidbit for several days but never said anything? Know someone who just went through this. Mar 8, at PM 2. Mar 8, at PM 3. Thanks x 3. Mar 8, at PM 4. You know so the partner could have fun doing something else. I don't have the patience. Thanks x 4 LOL! Mar 8, at PM 5. I wish people on this site would learn to write in coherent and complete sentences. Mar 8, at PM 6. You don't have to spend every second together.
You're allowed to go out with your cousin. Thanks x 5. Mar 8, at PM 7. Questions like this depend on who you are dating and do you trust them. Does the person know the cousin? Does he go out with the cousin often? I would be annoyed cause I would have wanted to make plans for myself but if my mans character is one of honesty and integrity I wouldnt think anything else of it.
If you are with a known liar you can't trust then good luck. Thanks x 1. Mar 8, at PM 8. I don't get how this is an issue, if I'm understanding your post correctly.
Nothing to discuss. Thanks x 6 LOL! Mar 8, at PM 9. Mar 8, at PM Maybe I missed something but to me it's a form a respect in the relationship. What if they had something special planned, dinner outing etc? If I'm rolling out with my boys I'm not going to wait ti''l the day of to say something. I would say something ahead of time so that way their no confusion and to keep the peace. If your partner is not behaving the way you want or expect them to and you are not married to them, you always have a choice.
If its an infrequent lapse in memory or judgment and not a systematic lack of consideration, then maybe just let it go. I am sure the person involved knows what's what and the type of person they are in a relationship with. Thanks x 2. From my understanding her man is mad they not going out during the weekend because she didn't cancel her plans with her cousin.
Even though she let him know several days prior she had plans with her cousin. He didn't say anything and was passive aggressive and mad. Op sounds annoyed by it. HE or she has made other plans with another party. You are the sidechick or he has sidechicks. Not annoyed by anything. Bottom line every relationship is different and maybe because I'm an ole head it's all about keeping the peace.
I'm pretty sure my mate would've had something to say. Another woman came thru 2. He didn't wanna be bothered with her 3. He's possibly gay. Mar 9, at AM I'm reading this like a and b made plans earlier in the week for Saturday. Saturday rolls around a hits b up and ask what are we doing today?
B says I have plans with my cousin. The issue is b knew they made plans with the cousin after a and b agreed to see each other. Instead of informing a they had plans ahead of time, they waited til Saturday to say that.. If this is indeed the case. Yea I'd be annoyed too.
They can see their cousin, but let me know as soon as it comes up so I can make other plans for the day we agreed to meet. If said partner let their SO know beforehand that they had plans to go out with their cousin, then I don't see why anyone would get angry at that. However, if said partner agreed to go out with their SO earlier in the week and then drops a bomb afterwards and says they've also made plans to hang out with the cousin on the same night, that would piss me off.
That would be grounds for me not to see or talk to you for weeks, maybe even months. Hell, I might even ghost you because that's just plain disrespectful. Again, if it's the former, then it's whatever and no one needs to be angry about that. If it's the latter, I understand the anger. The man doesn't think much about the woman he is with. So he doesn't care about the impact that cancelling her for his cousin will have on her.
No doubt there are other signs of disrespect, she should not stay with this man if she is looking to be treated with regard in her relationship. If he is not going to prioritize her, then the least he can do is let her know about the change so she doesn't spend time looking forward to something that is already cancelled. She could have made her own plans too. From some of these comments either y'all fronting, dont have a man or must be young? So you mean to tell me dude could tell you he's going out with the fellas say several hrs beforehand even though hes known this days earlier, never mentioned it and it wouldnt be a problem?
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